Don't feel bad.
I get annoying e-mails for my father, from the political party that he claims to be a part of.
He is 75.
He does not use e-mail, or the internet.
He cannot remember his e-mail address, let alone mine.
He donates no money.
We are at odds politically.
How did this political party (better said as scammers looking for donations supposedly for this political party) get my e-mail, and why are they asking for my father by name on my e-mail account?!?
Oh, I can relate! To some of it, anyway.
I get mail addressed to my mother, offering everything from life insurance to credit cards, hearing tests to funeral plots. Mom died in 2013.
I get mail addressed to my brother. As above, plus information on planning for Medicare. He died in 2014. He'll never see 65--he killed himself at 56.
My mom, I was really proud of her, and I've written about her before, I'm sure. She used computers from their early days--BUT they always ran the dreaded
micro$oft so-called operating systems. She did everything, from e-mail to playing games. When she was 80, I wiped window$ off her computer and replaced it with my favorite Linux distro, Kubuntu. She asked what I was doing and I said I was upgrading her computer.
Afterward, with no instruction, I let her have at it. I had configured it to only have one desktop--since that's all window$ users could have, and I didn't want her getting confused by accidentally switching to another desktop--and I made its UI familiar to her, with a taskbar on the bottom, a cascading menu, etc. I installed things she was already using, like SeaMonkey (or whatever it was called back then) browser and e-mail client, games that I thought she'd like, an office suite, etc. She had ZERO problems. Her one ongoing complaint? "It's too fast!!"
She couldn't believe that her slow, cumbersome computer had magically turned into a fast, blazing, easy to use version. Loved it!